We are all exceptional creators, transforming our personal experiences into unique life patterns. We have the ability to do this consciously, brushstroke by brushstroke, moment by moment, one day at a time.

Like everyone else, you are given the tools to paint your own life. You have the freedom to design every moment and every day. You are free to use the colors of your choice or destroy your canvas. You are also free to pick it up, stitch it back together and continue painting. You can erase the colors you don’t like or simply flow around them like water adapting to its landscape.

When you sit back and look at the painting you have created, do you understand what you see? Is it a jumble of confusing strokes and colors? Are there more sparkling colors than dark, dull ones? Or is it the other way around? Are you enjoying painting the way you are now?

You may be choking your portrait with the wrong colors, people, environment or embellishments. More colors or frills do not translate into a better painting. Instead of suffocating it with elements that add no depth or meaning, try removing some colors and strokes to free up space. It will help you create a more meaningful image. The next stroke will reveal itself to you when you listen to yourself in a conscious way.

Many of us allow others to dictate our style. We continue painting according to their instructions, but with an emptiness inside. The worst form of bondage is when you allow others to compel you to paint their way. Often, the ones do so lack an inner understanding of themselves and have hardly explored their own creations.

They are easy to recognize. Take a look at their works. They use the same timid, careful, tiny strokes for life, confining themselves to a minute part of their canvas. Their creations reveal themselves in stagnant patterns. They use their time critiquing others, rather than exploring their own canvas more. Without ill-will, gently erase them from your canvas to make space for brighter colors.

There are some others who are focused on creating their own masterpieces. They move with the flow of life, growing and evolving. They are rarely stagnant, because their path is clear. Sometimes they observe your work and make suggestions. Then they move on, allowing you to interpret their suggestion in your own way. They are far smarter than you are and command your respect. They bring out the best in you. When you meet someone like that, seek their guidance.

Your best work is the one that reflects the authentic you and gives you a deep sense of peace. The one that you love working hard on, without complaining. The strokes are demanding but joyful. They tire you in a blissful way. Use bold, clean, passionate strokes in colors that inspire your mind and speak to your soul. Try new colors and techniques. Or try just a couple of colors you love. Explore every corner of your canvas. The painting of your life then shines through, revealing new and exciting mosaics. Have fun! It is your painting, no one else’s.

Remember, your creation is finite. Revel in every line you draw while you still can. When it is time to lay down your brush, you can look at your masterpiece with joy and walk away with a smile.